I was reflecting on how I got to where I am today, in this place where I feel so centered and so right about what I’m doing and where I’m headed, and as a Connectedness, I’m always so struck by the encounters that mold our futures. When we talk about people that changed our lives,…
DetailsSHOW NOTES Since we’ve had a lot of questions about how to do these, I wanted to do a quick primer on this so you’d have the tool (and mostly so we’d have the tool for reference). This is a tool I use for myself and I’m not claiming to speak for the entirety of…
DetailsIf you’ve ever been in transition, or if you’ve ever had something change on you where you didn’t have control over the change, you’ll know the uncentered feeling of getting used to new phases of life. And as someone who resisted change in my life for almost a decade, I have a few thoughts. Rachael…
DetailsHaving a convo about auto-calculating ROI recently, when I pointed out that not everyone automatically thinks of everything they do as an investment, or of actions and time having automatic worth that we’re getting a return on. The three of them all stared at me like I’d sprouted another head. “How can people not calculate…
DetailsThere’s this brief moment, maybe sixty seconds in duration, where a sunrise is so brilliant, it takes your breath away. Fractals of a thousand different colors. And it’s not every sunrise either. Right? It’s only occasional sunrises and the moment is so beautiful you notice how amazing it is. And if you don’t stop and…
DetailsIf you know your Strengths, take a quick minute to check in with them. We usually do a 1-10 scale (1 is low and 10 is high), but you could do emojis or thumbs-up/thumbs-down, or 1-5. Whatever works for you. Are they each getting fed in a beneficial way? Is there anything you could do…
DetailsImagine you hear there’s a chest of gold buried somewhere in a vast and uninhabited land. You have it under good authority the land is orderly and peaceful, where the rules are so understood, there are entire degree programs devoted to finding this gold. Then you hear there are people who’ve claimed some of the…
DetailsThe most common advice we give in our Write Better-Faster course (which thousands of writers have taken) that gets people the most writing improvement… Real quick is a lie. Stop using social media “real quick” in the morning. Don’t start your day with social media. In fact, wait as long as you can in the…
DetailsWhen a friend passed along a meme about collecting information (a tweet from someone who basically said, “you don’t have to know everything… hobbies shouldn’t stress you out”), my immediate response was sort of telling. One of the most easy things in the world for me is collecting information. I’m a #1 Input (CliftonStrengths) so…
DetailsSHOW NOTES Every decision you make is a hammered nail or placed board for the house you’re going to live in as an author. Are you making choices that will build you a house you can live in? In this episode, we discuss burnout, overwhelm, FOMO, and the sustainability archetypes (which I’ll have to do…
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