Do you know your respect signals? What behaviors make you know someone respects you? Having a convo with a client yesterday that reminded me just how different even micro-behaviors are interpreted, depending on your personality. “Don’t check in on me” is a sign of respect for Responsibility. Like, “I’ve got this, you don’t have to…
DetailsMy thinkers. My friends. It’s frustrating to take time away from everything, hoping that the space will help you finish thinking about the thing you were supposed to be thinking about… And then come back from the time away, but not feel finished thinking. If you happen to have Intellection, you’ll know this from the…
DetailsSHOW NOTES *Spoiler: I swear a couple of times in this one… sorry!* When we think about how to interact with our future, it’s important to know how we “should” respond to thinking about the future. So I want to talk about what “healthy” future-thinking should look like. Caveat: If you are under a doctor’s…
DetailsLook. Imposters can’t have imposter syndrome. The syndrome is thusly named because people who are not imposters feel like they are imposters. By nature, people who care about doing their best will worry they’re not doing “good” enough. Imposters don’t worry about being good enough. Stop arguing with imposter syndrome by saying, “no, look at…
DetailsSHOW NOTES With guest Claire Taylor, we question the premise of whether or not it’s good to do all the things in this industry. Hope it’s helpful. Important Links! Please check out Claire’s website: https://www.ffs.media And if you want to come to the conference, join us here: BFACon 2023 This podcast is not endorsed…
DetailsUnrealistic expectations. Every one of us has a blind spot about the things that come easy for us. When something is very easy (when I can see a strategic path forward, or when I can know what someone is feeling, or when I can “pull up my big girl pants and just do the work”),…
DetailsIt has been a struggle. I know a lot of what we get on social media is the brassy, shiny stuff, and that’s all amazing, but the last several months have been a struggle for me. I shared some of this in the newsletter on Friday, but I wanted to put it out here as…
DetailsI know I announced rather ominously that I had something I was afraid to talk about, and I had no idea I would open a bit of a storm with that. Unfortunately, because I was also at CozyCon last week, I didn’t have a chance to get the letter done. But now that I’ve had…
Details“I just want to write.” I don’t know if you can hear the desperation in that sentence, but if you didn’t read it that way, read it again. “I don’t want to work my day job. I just want to write.” “I don’t want to market. I just want to write.” “I don’t want to…
DetailsWhen you usually think five-moves-ahead of others, and you like to be a quick thinker, the times when you’re stuck in thinking can be frustrating. Let’s talk about it. This combination of the ability to have foresight (the “five moves ahead” part) and also to care about whether or not things happen in the most…
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